FROM ME FOR ME (AND YOU)

As the season of giving approaches, we’re redefining gifting. In a world that often feels uncertain and complicated, moments of joy, indulgence, and connection become even more meaningful. While a splurge might feel excessive, a thoughtful gift – one with lasting appeal – can make all the difference. While we love giving to others, treating ourselves is sometimes just as important. After all, who knows your taste, needs, and ever-evolving wishlist better than you?

PATINA Translucent bra in aperitivo (enjoy 15% off with code THECEILING15), TEGET Cushion transmission, JUJU VERA Petra shell pendant and SOPHIE BUHAI Black onyx donut ring

So, what’s on our radar for some self-gifting this holiday season? Here’s our personal edit to get started.

Lara: I think we’ve all experienced coveting something that’s hard to justify. For me that is the Penna shirt from The Row. A seemingly simple green cotton corduroy shirt that, despite its price tag, stays firmly planted in my mind (thanks, in part, to my recent Zoë Kravitz style obsession). Perhaps it's the perfect indulgence: an ideal balance of muted color for my wardrobe and an interesting layer of texture to complement my cashmere and denim staples. If this kind of self-gifting still feels too steep (which, knowing me, it might), I’ll opt for a chic alternative like this same shade shirt from The Frankie Shop.

Next on my list: the Khaite leather Nevada boots, because nothing says timeless chic like a modern twist on a classic ankle boot. I first spotted their high-heeled black version and two-toned snake print iteration at the NYC store last summer, but it’s their newly launched rich brown pair with a smaller, more practical heel that has me hooked. Fellow jewelry lovers will understand the magnetic pull of Sophie Bille Brahe’s designs. Adding a ring from this Danish designer to my collection has only deepened my admiration for her Petit Boucle Ensemble earrings (same goes for the wavy version). It would be an absolute treat to add these Jessica McCormack earrings or this Sophie Buhai ring to my collection as well. This silver and white onyx box I discovered on 1stDibs, that has been sitting in my favorites list forever, is the kind of object that adds a soft gleam to any vanity or side table.

SPUSTOVA Audace de Tris Solitaire Vertical ring

Charon: Since moving to South Africa earlier this year, my wishlist has drastically shrunk. It turns out I don’t need much more than sunshine, a beach, a glass of wine, and some activewear (more on that starting next year). That said, the only way this Spustova Audace de Tris Solitaire Vertical ring in white is leaving my wishlist is by landing on my finger. Also holding strong on my edit: the perfect classic cotton shirt, like this one from Toteme, and a great pair of Thistles sunglasses that balance practicality with style. My top picks are the black “The AL” and black “The Atlas”. And finally, I wouldn’t mind an investment beach towel (if that’s even a thing), like this one from Loewe Paula's Ibiza.

TEGET Sofa Cover – Black and Yellow

Gifts we would like to give (and receive)

1. PATINA Translucent bra and brief: crafted from super-soft, high-quality Italian materials, this lingerie set comes in licorice, aperitivo, and marron glacé—you’ll probably want them all. Made in a small atelier in Portugal, PATINA was designed to help women reconnect with their bodies, making even the simplest moments, like getting dressed, feel meaningful. Comfortable yet alluring, this set is the ultimate (self)gift. Enjoy 15% off with code THECEILING15 — our treat.
2. Sophie Buhai nautilus letter opener/ knife: the most stunning letter opener that doubles as a knife—never knew we needed it, but we definitely do.
3. Lié Studio silver hair tie: we love jewelry, and the idea of hair jewelry takes it up a notch. This new silver hair tie from Danish brand Lié Studio (also available in gold) adds an unexpected touch of elegance to any look. 
4. Teget Sofa Cover in black and yellow or blue: a stylish interior accessory designed to withstand real life.
5. Georg Jensen Bernadotte French coffee press: this mirror-polished stainless steel design is like jewelry for your counter top—an upgrade every kitchen and dining table deserves.
6. TEKLA Kodiak stripes bathrobe: practically a classic by now—if this doesn’t make you want to get out of bed in the morning, what will?
7. Le Sundial black onyx necklace: Italian brand Le Sundial, founded by Silvia Dusci, creates handmade sculptural jewelry like this Venice Opera Necklace. Crafted from onyx beads and sterling silver, its tassel design adds just the right touch of drama—just like this stunning tassel piece by Juju Vera.
8. Carne Bollente ‘Running Naked’ blanket (or here): this handwoven ‘nude’ blanket will keep you cozy and adds a bold touch to your living room. We can’t help but love it.
9. Hot Legs Cowboy boot candle holders: timelessly quirky.
10. Gohar World blue host gloves and the Gohar World mini lace hands apron: a playful way to elevate your holiday hosting game.

Gifts under €100 

1. ‘The World Is On Fire But We’re Still Buying Shoes’ book by Alech Leach
2. Wolford Josey 20 denier leopard-print tights
3. Multicolor 'More Joy' baubles set 
4. Sophie Bille Brahe velvet jewelry box
5. The Ceiling paid newsletter subscription —a unique gift at €50 per year (or about the price of a coffee per month). Along with supporting our work, this subscription grants access to our vintage newsletter, among other great perks. 
6. Cou Cou Baby tee organic cotton shirt or scoop tank.
7. COS long leather gloves
8. Herbar the Gua-Shroom face massager
9. Ann Demeulemeester x Serax Edition DÉ mug set
10. Loewe Tomato leaves scented candle or soap bar

 Gifts under €100: Loewe Tomato soap bar

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